Okay aside from my normal posts of gloom and darkness, I would like to introduce a positive in your life. Ellen Fein and Sherry really did it when creating this book. it a small book full of many lessons about a man, the dating world, how you should be treated as well as how you should treat him. This book in conjunction with Why Men Marry B***** really served as an eye opener for me and my life. I remember vividly now, my boyfriend was pulling away from me, spending less time with me, and neglecting my needs. I thought he was cheating on me (he was) so guess what I did? I went out to the local Sex shop and bougth all this ish for us to "play" to rekindle our loves. Oh yes. I thougth I was so smart. I bought oils, and candles, and cards, and board games. I thought I was the smartest woman alive. he would be sure to come back to me now!! I pulled out the board game, (It was romantic and not sexual). He asked me could we skip the game and get to the sex.... I blinked uncontrolably and felt liek a fool. Luckily my sixth sense told me to end our date for that night, and I learned a lesson. I am not ehre to serve a man. I am not here to please hima nd coax him to treat me right. He shoudl be dying and longing to tlak to me, spend time with me, and treat me right. I deserve it right? Well The rules really taught me a few things, and I think it is an excellent book for anyone in the datting scene. A few tips you could learn from the book?
· Don't waste time on a fantasy relationship. You may have a good rapport with your doctor, lawyer or accountant, and you may find yourself wondering if he is interested in you romantically. How can you know for sure? If he's never asked you out, then he's not interested!
· No Call? He’s Not Interested. We know this is hard to accept, but it's not that he hasn't called because he's busy, or because you didn't smile or talk enough (or did too much). It's not that he lost your phone number. The bottom line is, if he hasn't called, he's not that interested.
· BEWARE! Love may be blind, but Rules girls are not stupid! How does he act in the relationship? Is he cheap on dates? Is he critical of you? Remember, The Rules are not about marrying the first man you are attracted to who calls you by Wednesday for Saturday night and buys you flowers. It's about marrying your own personal Mr. Right -- a man whom you love and whose character you admire and can live with.
Pick up the book today!
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